Signs he not interested in dating you Kinky chat now
When you don't get that speedy affirmation text, or a greeting within a few days, it can mean a number of things.
Waiting too long to follow up is a sign the other person is flaky or disinterested, which either way is not worth your time.
As the saying goes, “actions speak louder than words.” There’s reason that saying is so popular… But you still need to be realistic and not fool yourself. I mean, we have our male friends, but if you’re a new guy, there’s no way I’m spending time with you if I don’t feel anything. People only spend time with those they find worthy of giving their time to.
Listen, we don’t hang around guys that we’re not interested in.
Though seeing the date through to its end may seem like an obligation for most people, Santos says there *are* exceptional dating disasters where you have to cut it short for your own sanity.
"Most people are courteous enough to do the absolute minimum on a date: finish whatever activity you're doing together and devote sufficient time out of respect for the other person," he says.
But if she’s tearing up from laughing at your jokes, she really finds you funny. Her eyes will sparkle when she’s listening to you talk or when she’s looking at you while laughing. If we don’t like you, then you might get a “hi” if you’re lucky. But if she acknowledges you in a room and gives you attention, well, then it’s only a matter of time. If she can’t stop smiling around you, well, come on, she’s one happy girl.
If we don’t like the guy, you’ll be lucky if we even crack a smile.
So, if her friends know about you, she’s been talking. This will take some time, but if you notice her acting less tense and more natural, then that’s a good sign that she’s becoming comfortable."A masochist like myself might ask a girl to spend more time with him if he's not enjoying her company," Santos says, but if they're willing to extend the date past the "easy out" first location of a bar or coffee shop, that's a good sign."Sometimes I get so excited during a first date I play my cards by suggesting other things we should do together," says Santos, though timing may not be that immediate.A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the first one.Some may do this as a friendly gesture before making a quick exit, says Santos, but it can't be bad if your date is enthusiastic enough to suggest a second meet-up. A good sign that a date went *really* well, says Santos, is when someone giddily follows up after a date to let you know they had a great time without waiting around.The alternative: "If I'm not interested after the date, I'll head straight home and begin my process of fading out of this girl's life (following up is not part of that process)." Of course, not hearing back right away isn't a definite rejection, but the excitement of a speedy follow-up message speaks for itself.