Rituals of dating
This is quite different from the freedoms experienced by young people today.
We have more options now; “love” is almost always the universal premise for marriage, particularly in Western cultures.
The door opens and he is ushered into a large, well-furnished room.
The point is, a marriage is a joining of two families as well as two young people.
Few choices and no time to date People may assume that arranged marriages were loveless matches, with frightened young people forced into lives of emotional pain and forbidding loneliness, but such was not always the case.
Courting was rooted in the era of arranged marriages, though the couple and their feelings often played an important role.
Still, families often met to discuss how this marriage would benefit not only the bride and groom, but the respective clans.