Do your daughter dating loser
I predict that act will wear thin really, REALLY fast. If you suspect or have proof of that, then you have to do what you can to get her out of there.
Clearly there’s no love lost between you and this guy and I can’t say that I blame you. The more you antagonize him, the more he’s going to bend her ear, which will feed their collective paranoia. Forgive me for being so blunt but lady, your daughter is a spoiled BRAT!
I’m sure you had things she wanted/needed (cell phone and freedom immediately come to mind). You could have devised a plan if she in fact did run away and if she continued to threaten suicide, have taken her to a doctor. People are going to do what they have always done until they are motivated to change.
That means your daughter is going to stay with this loser until she looks up one day, maybe after a couple of convictions and kids with this guy, and realizes that this SUCKS!
When we took her car, her boyfriend got mad and tried to press charges on me for “harassing” my daughter when I was only calling her on the phone to make sure she was okay.
I’ve already canceled her insurance but my parents added her on their policy. I will only pay for her orthodontist and that’s it. He is a lazy, no good bum and I think he is on drugs.
If they want to take on your mercurial daughter and the no-good boyfriend, let them.Nearly twice her age, a couple of prison stints, I can see where he’s not top of mind when you think of someone who will love and cherish your little girl. You did not “run off” this emotional extortionist by telling her the truth about her deadbeat boyfriend.But she’s an adult now and this is her decision, even if it’s not the one you would choose for her or yourself. She left of her own accord because she didn’t want to obey the rules that you, the homeowner (who happens to be her mother), put in place.I want her to come home but if she won’t, then I at least want a relationship with her.Dear Pi P: I wish I had a dollar for every letter I got from a mother, worried that her daughter was getting involved with a bad seed.