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This piece is also dedicated to all of the single mothers who will hopefully read this and know they are not alone in their needs and desires.There are men out there who will embrace you and your children without hesitation, and they will see it as a blessing. My 19-year-old self thawed in the middle of Single-town, expected to assume the role of a 31-year-old eligible bachelorette with an A-game. I spent the entire decade of my 20s hibernating in the cave of accelerated adulthood -- planning a wedding, building a home, getting pregnant, having miscarriages, getting pregnant again, breastfeeding, home making and child-rearing.Taking it slow and playing a smooth game is not her M. Remember, she spent every night for years with the same person.She is a fish out of water and she will act like it. Make light of her ineptness and remember she's on a learning curve -- it won't be like this forever.I sit down and across from me, empty space, on either side of me, joy -- bouncing legs, crumbs and buttery hands yearning to tell me about their days and I listen, but there is something missing: a partner.Someone who's there to listen, contribute to the conversation, and asks the questions I forget to ask, who catches the conversation like the catcher in a game, and throws the ball back to me, As mothers, we feel forgotten a lot.I missed out on the 10 years of dating and hard knock life lessons of an un-committed Gen X'er.

I've made up for all of the years of inexperience in the dating pool, earning a rap sheet full of mistakes and heartbreaks.

I wrote this piece with the intention of supporting the man interested in a woman with children.

To offer him a peek inside her life, to help him understand her better.

We listen and listen, but who is there to listen to us?

It is a simple action -- to be silent and give attention to object of your affection. Some of us haven't had meaningful or passionate sex in years.

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