Dating a former heroin addict
If you find yourself being a magnet for all the wrong people or feeling “relationship challenged,” the path toward genuine intimacy may start with you.
“Most people are drawn to partners at their same level of emotional development,” says Neil Strauss, author of .
“Instead of trying to ‘fix’ the other person, get help for what you can control: yourself.” Who you choose as a partner offers a wealth of insights into your own challenges. Use what you discover to heal yourself and the relationship if it’s one worth investing in.
When conflict inevitably arises in a relationship, it’s easy to point the finger at prospective partners as being flawed and needing to change.“In this digital age, we mostly know nothing about our courting partner.” As a couples therapist, Dr.Tatkin has seen many online dating success stories.Support groups: The most common form in the popular consciousness supports addicts, but in both reality and fiction, all varieties of personal problems have groups dedicated to group therapy for them.Either way, it's cheaper than paying for a psychiatrist.