Christian dating and courting

I do not intend to defend a certain set of rules, or refute any.Neither will I pretend like I have the best advice, since I am not even married.The following are 6 Christians dating do’s and don’ts for those who want God’s will more than their own way.Abraham sent his senior servant to seek out a wife for his son, Isaac.Although it is not crucial to be good friends before you start dating, the better you know someone the, well, better. Although “to have fun” is not the purpose of dating, dating should be fun. Marriage will be one of the hardest things you do, so set a joyful precedent.There will be differences, but they do not have to break the relationship. I mentioned it before, but it’s worth repeating: always pursue health.So here goes: Your quality and purpose of life is not determined by whether or not you date or get married.

Originally from Northern Minnesota, he lives with his family in Los Angeles where they moved to plant inner-city churches.

Some people date for many years, others date for months, or even weeks. If you cannot do that, then you should not be dating: it is not fair to either of you.

Like any relationship, dating and marriage should not be put into a box. Remember, you are trying to figure out if the two of you are a marriageable match. Your relationship is not so important that you cannot enjoy yourselves! Do romantic things, do normal things, do things together, and do things with your friends!

If you meet someone who you want to do life with or that God is laying on your heart to pursue romantically, then you will still be fine.

Either way, the quality of your life is what you make it.

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